HOW PARENTS SHOULD DEAL WITH UNDISCIPLINED CHILD?

ROOT CAUSES

Parents attitude towards education
Lack of Proper attention
Abusive Languages
High Expectations
Conflicts
Extra Ordinary Punishments
Comparison With Others
Friend Circle

SUGGESTIONS

PARENTS ATTITUDE TOWARDS EDUCATION
Parents must take interest in their child's educational performance and should attend PTA and should talk to teacher about his/her problem. Parents should also take interest in his/her efforts.

PROPER ATTENTION
Every child wants attention from their parents. When parents become careless about it. Child adopts different things to get attention and it may be negative or positive. There are certain difficulties and problems which every child has to face their life such as making new friends, changing class room, entering new schools, moving to new homes and cities.The illness or death of a family member or loss of a parent through divorce is especially traumatic. These times can be painful for school age children, and parents need to provide support and attention.

LANGUAGES
Use of languages at home creates the very bad effect on child's character. Therefore children must be provided good environment in their homes.

EXPECTATIONS
Most of the parents expect high expectation from their child and pressurize their child to fulfill it and if they fail parents punishes them. Therefore parents must not pressurize their child from fulfilling their expectations.

CONFLICTS
Conflicts between parents at home. Children adopts bad behavior from it. Therefore Parents must adopt patience and humbleness.

COMPARISONS
Every person are different from each others and with different skills so don't compare your child with others.

HELPING YOUR CHILD READ

READING

Children often see people in their lives who value reading and books. Parents and care givers are the best role. Show your children that reading is very important by reading yourself.

PLAN TRIPS TO THE LIBRARY AND BOOKSTORES

The public library is a wonderful learning place to help explore and discover new books and can enjoy reading. Libraries often offers reading activities free of charge. Be sure to check out their story hours.

GIVE MAGAZINES AND BOOKS TO YOUR CHILD AS GIFT

Let children select books that interest them. Having reading materials at home will encourage children to read more often.

TURN OFF TELEVISION

Children need quite time without distractions. It will encourage children to read more and for longer time.

TALK TO CHILDREN WHAT THEY HAVE READ

Ask them to tell you about stories and their feelings about the books they have read. This will help children to enhance their creativity skills.

REMEMBER

READING IS IMPORTANT FOR CHILDREN OF ALL AGES. AS CHILDREN GROW OLDER, BOOKS CAN EXPAND THEIR VOCABULARY, THINKING SKILLS AND ALSO THEIR CREATIVITY. ENCOURAGE YOUR CHILDREN TO SPEND FREE TIME READING BOOK THEY ENJOY.

PARENT TEACHER PARTNERSHIP

PARTNERSHIP BETWEEN PARENT TEACHER
AND CHILD

WHY SHOULD I BE INVOLVED?

Parents and guardian are their child first teacher. This role does not end when children enter school.Only 13% of a child’s time is spent in school. 87% is in the home and community.Studies shows that children whose parents are actively involved in their education perform much better.A CHILD IS BEST SERVED IF A PARENT CROSSES THE THRESHOLD OF SCHOOL

CHALLENGES AND PROBLEMS

1. The environment of children in the electronic age
2. secular education burdens and they generally gives importance to their secular education.

SUGGESTIONS FOR PARENTS

1. Active role in School.
2. Always attend Parent Teacher Meeting
   
3. checking child's performance and watch what he does in internet.
4. Attend workshop and lectures program
5. Discuss with their child about religious and secular education
6. Children learn first and foremost from their parents so give quality time to them.
7. Encourage your child involvement in extra curricular activities.
8. Advice the teacher of any important personal issues situations or events which might effect your child’s performance.
9. At last try to build them strong relationship between parents, teachers and children.

Motivating Children to Learn

• children learn best when they feel valued.
• Children learn best when the experience is engaging and rewarding.
• Children learn best in a secure and supportive environment where provision is made for discovery, challenge and choice.
• Learning is most effective when each learner’s uniqueness is taken into account.
• Learning is a lifelong experience and happens at different rates and in different ways.
• Learners need to be actively involved in their learning with adequate time for being given for reflection and self-evaluation.
• Successful learners accept responsibility for their learning.
• Successful learners are motivated to create learning opportunities and use a range of strategies to achieve their goals.
• Emotion is a critical part of learning.
• People learn and make sense of things in different ways.
• Prior knowledge is a vital foundation on which to build new learning.
  
• Learning essential skills and processes will enable students to become productive life long learners.
• The parent’s role is to motivate, stimulate and facilitate student learning.
  
• Time to plan, organize and reflect with colleagues is an essential part of a productive learning community.
  
• Social interactions, interpersonal relationships and communication with others significantly influence learning.
  
• Assessment and feedback are essential elements in the learning process.
  Respect, Cooperation, Excellence, Caring, Responsibility are the key values to be taught to children while motivating them towards learning.