HOW PARENTS SHOULD DEAL WITH UNDISCIPLINED CHILD?

ROOT CAUSES

Parents attitude towards education
Lack of Proper attention
Abusive Languages
High Expectations
Conflicts
Extra Ordinary Punishments
Comparison With Others
Friend Circle

SUGGESTIONS

PARENTS ATTITUDE TOWARDS EDUCATION
Parents must take interest in their child's educational performance and should attend PTA and should talk to teacher about his/her problem. Parents should also take interest in his/her efforts.

PROPER ATTENTION
Every child wants attention from their parents. When parents become careless about it. Child adopts different things to get attention and it may be negative or positive. There are certain difficulties and problems which every child has to face their life such as making new friends, changing class room, entering new schools, moving to new homes and cities.The illness or death of a family member or loss of a parent through divorce is especially traumatic. These times can be painful for school age children, and parents need to provide support and attention.

LANGUAGES
Use of languages at home creates the very bad effect on child's character. Therefore children must be provided good environment in their homes.

EXPECTATIONS
Most of the parents expect high expectation from their child and pressurize their child to fulfill it and if they fail parents punishes them. Therefore parents must not pressurize their child from fulfilling their expectations.

CONFLICTS
Conflicts between parents at home. Children adopts bad behavior from it. Therefore Parents must adopt patience and humbleness.

COMPARISONS
Every person are different from each others and with different skills so don't compare your child with others.

PARENT TEACHER PARTNERSHIP

PARTNERSHIP BETWEEN PARENT TEACHER
AND CHILD

WHY SHOULD I BE INVOLVED?

Parents and guardian are their child first teacher. This role does not end when children enter school.Only 13% of a child’s time is spent in school. 87% is in the home and community.Studies shows that children whose parents are actively involved in their education perform much better.A CHILD IS BEST SERVED IF A PARENT CROSSES THE THRESHOLD OF SCHOOL

CHALLENGES AND PROBLEMS

1. The environment of children in the electronic age
2. secular education burdens and they generally gives importance to their secular education.

SUGGESTIONS FOR PARENTS

1. Active role in School.
2. Always attend Parent Teacher Meeting
   
3. checking child's performance and watch what he does in internet.
4. Attend workshop and lectures program
5. Discuss with their child about religious and secular education
6. Children learn first and foremost from their parents so give quality time to them.
7. Encourage your child involvement in extra curricular activities.
8. Advice the teacher of any important personal issues situations or events which might effect your child’s performance.
9. At last try to build them strong relationship between parents, teachers and children.